Skip to main content

Interracial / Inter-tribal Marriage A Taboo But Not Interracial/ Inter-tribal Sex Right?

Let's be true and make our world less complicated.

You are dating a babe, and sleeping with her then when it is time to marry, you 'sneak out' and go to marry your 'village girl'...then have loads of opinions why you cannot marry someone from her tribe.

I saw this 'iniquity' first as a 3rd year student in IMSU.
A friend of mine (babe) was so in love with this guy and they were an item. The guy wasn't a student and was so in love with her - He practically adored her.

On our way to the hostel one day, I said "it seems you will be the first to get married after our graduation" and she goes "i hope you don't mean with xyz (her boyfriend at the time) and then added "no way ooo, i am the first daughter from my royal xyz, and we cannot marry outside our tribe. I know marriage is on his mind but when we get there, I will discuss it with him".

In my Deeper life church mind then, I shrunk and could not understand why we go to lengths of having sex with someone from a "taboo tribe" but then deceive ourselves that as long as it is not marriage it is fine.

Growing up, I have seen this strange affinity and self deceit abound and even become a sort of norm....even people from taboo religions, taboo colours, taboo races, taboo ethnicity, and taboo confusion have sex at will.

Do you understand what the act of SEX is and involves?

Sex is a game e kwa?

Uncle Kontinu! You hear?

Mek I go my friend Femi's wedding jor....I even like him cos he is yoruba and marrying my Igbo sister today.

Argue with your qwerty....


Popular posts from this blog

Why Pastor Goodheart Ekwueme Resigned From House on the Rock Church in Abuja

I have been in pains!

If you follow me on Instagram, you will notice, I put up my pastor and coach's picture last weekend because I was heart broken.
He is Pastor Goodheart Ekwueme, the outgone (as much as I hate to use that) resident pastor of my local assembly in Abuja. I and all those who knows him, are going to miss him soooooooo much, it hurts.

Jenny Chisom's 12 Codes of Conduct for Men That Rivals Any Male Code

It's been a tough past week so I am grateful for Sunday heralding a new week.
I have been burdened to create a Code of Conduct for members of the League of Extraordinary Men (LExM) on Facebook. So while I couldn't attend service, I sat down and wrote this down on my note pad, then typed it.
This came in a bid to begin to restructure the group to ensure it is serving the right purpose and the right men.

My Abuja Intimate Vision Board Party

I'm having an intimate vision party in my Abuja neighbourhood on Sunday. Wanna join my gang 😁 send SMS as instructed.

My vision board party is a party I used to do only by myself in the past but making open to friends this year.