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Jenny Chisom's 12 Codes of Conduct for Men That Rivals Any Male Code

It's been a tough past week so I am grateful for Sunday heralding a new week.

I have been burdened to create a Code of Conduct for members of the League of Extraordinary Men (LExM) on Facebook. So while I couldn't attend service, I sat down and wrote this down on my note pad, then typed it.

This came in a bid to begin to restructure the group to ensure it is serving the right purpose and the right men.




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                                 The LExM Code

1. I am a man, made in the image and likeness of God therefore God is my boss.

2. I acknowledge that I am a human spirit, and blessed with a WILL to choose right from wrong but I choose to live right.

3. I wake up each day with a purpose to care for, lead, and inspire people in my immediate environment and also those in the jurisdiction of my life purpose.

4. I am neither weak, undisciplined, poor, clueless nor in the number of men society is trying to fix.

5. I do all things in moderation because I am a leader committed to being an example at all times.

6. I have a life plan, that guides my choices, goals, jobs, earnings and relationships with others and I commit to it daily, conscious that I am accountable to my boss.

7. I commit (if I choose to marry) to raise a family that will be a solution to our world. I will show them how to earn honest living, live fit and healthy, love God and exude love at all times.

8. I am conscious not to repeat the mistakes of Men I watched growing up and I commit to mentoring younger men too.

9. Money, Women, Alcohol and Reputation do not have me in bondage; I live my life free from inordinate pressures, because at all times I am in charge.

10. I am not afraid to learn, relearn, and unlearn because I understand that I can always become the best version of me every other day. I am committed to self-development and self-mastery.

11. Life challenges and shortcomings are part of life and living thus they do not at any time make me less the man that I am.

12. I am in tune with my emotional core and understand I deserve love, peace of mind and care. I am emotionally mature and so treat others right.

Written 10:41 AM Sunday, July 16, 2017 Abuja, Nigeria
By Jenny Chisom Opara



I have sampled it to guys on the group and they all loved it, said they will record it and abide by it always, while applauding my ingenuity.

So I thought to share with you too.

So we are making history daily. Join us too.

Comments

Frank said…
This is indeed inspired
Unknown said…
Madam

You tight. You make sense. So in point. I think you should put it out there for more men.

Thanks a lot.

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